Comments on: If you haven’t noticed, I’m gay! Wahoo! http://www.btn101.net/2009/12/31/if-you-havent-noticed-im-gay-wahoo/ The Blog Thu, 29 Jul 2010 00:31:35 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Yet http://www.btn101.net/2009/12/31/if-you-havent-noticed-im-gay-wahoo/#comment-400 Yet Tue, 20 Jul 2010 10:26:05 +0000 http://www.btn101.net/?p=147#comment-400 Hi! Great words! Always do what you think and feel :) Hi!

Great words!
Always do what you think and feel :)

]]> By: Cross http://www.btn101.net/2009/12/31/if-you-havent-noticed-im-gay-wahoo/#comment-262 Cross Thu, 04 Mar 2010 19:45:30 +0000 http://www.btn101.net/?p=147#comment-262 Man Lay off the kid....Let him decide on what he wants in his life...let him love his own life Man Lay off the kid….Let him decide on what he wants in his life…let him love his own life

]]> By: CrossF1r3 http://www.btn101.net/2009/12/31/if-you-havent-noticed-im-gay-wahoo/#comment-258 CrossF1r3 Fri, 26 Feb 2010 04:07:43 +0000 http://www.btn101.net/?p=147#comment-258 Don't tell him like that....Your liable to make him crash at any point. Let him learn...Don't hold his hand...You can't hold his hand at any point Don’t tell him like that….Your liable to make him crash at any point.
Let him learn…Don’t hold his hand…You can’t hold his hand at any point

]]> By: Dave http://www.btn101.net/2009/12/31/if-you-havent-noticed-im-gay-wahoo/#comment-247 Dave Fri, 05 Feb 2010 21:58:07 +0000 http://www.btn101.net/?p=147#comment-247 Glad to see you got mostly positive comments. I can relate, even though I've never come out like you have. I'm encouraged to see guys like you able to be so articulate and honest on the web. I surely hope for a better, more tolerant world, and that you find love and support all your life. BTW...U R HOT 2!! Wish I could get to know you and be of some support. Glad to see you got mostly positive comments. I can relate, even though I’ve never come out like you have. I’m encouraged to see guys like you able to be so articulate and honest on the web. I surely hope for a better, more tolerant world, and that you find love and support all your life.

BTW…U R HOT 2!!

Wish I could get to know you and be of some support.

]]> By: EB http://www.btn101.net/2009/12/31/if-you-havent-noticed-im-gay-wahoo/#comment-246 EB Thu, 04 Feb 2010 08:34:08 +0000 http://www.btn101.net/?p=147#comment-246 Abe, you r a very likable young man. you have a certain charisma and charm. being gay is not easy . . . .but then again, it's not like we were given a choice. I don't usually give people unsolicited advise so let me tell you what happened to me and what I did. I presently work for a law enforcement agency. When I was new, I was very guarded about my personal life, for obvious reasons. Cops can be homophobic and I didn't want to arouse suspicion. I'm the kind of person who can hide it easily. I don't act the femme (not that there's anything wrong with that). Anyway, one day I was working out at the police department's gym and struck up a convo with this big, bald, muscle bound dude. He was really cool and worked in a different department. As time went by we sorta hit it off and so started chatting more and more. Finally one day he got around to asking me, "so r u married, girlfriend, what?" I replied, "no, I play for the other team." He just looked at me confused and finally his face broke into a smile. "Oh, you mean you're gay." "Afraid so," I responded. Turns out his best friend (another cop) is gay. To make a long story short, he and I have become very close. I have learned to relax into myself and so attract people - gay, straight, whoever. People are naturally attracted to those of us who can be real, authentic and comfortable in our own skin. I have many supportive friends in the department - most of them are straight. You are on the right track and I'm very grateful the world has changed to allow young, gay people like yourself the freedom to live true. Remember this: the people who mind don't matter and the people who matter don't mind Abe, you r a very likable young man. you have a certain charisma and charm. being gay is not easy . . . .but then again, it’s not like we were given a choice. I don’t usually give people unsolicited advise so let me tell you what happened to me and what I did.

I presently work for a law enforcement agency. When I was new, I was very guarded about my personal life, for obvious reasons. Cops can be homophobic and I didn’t want to arouse suspicion. I’m the kind of person who can hide it easily. I don’t act the femme (not that there’s anything wrong with that). Anyway, one day I was working out at the police department’s gym and struck up a convo with this big, bald, muscle bound dude. He was really cool and worked in a different department. As time went by we sorta hit it off and so started chatting more and more.

Finally one day he got around to asking me, “so r u married, girlfriend, what?” I replied, “no, I play for the other team.” He just looked at me confused and finally his face broke into a smile. “Oh, you mean you’re gay.” “Afraid so,” I responded. Turns out his best friend (another cop) is gay.

To make a long story short, he and I have become very close. I have learned to relax into myself and so attract people – gay, straight, whoever. People are naturally attracted to those of us who can be real, authentic and comfortable in our own skin. I have many supportive friends in the department – most of them are straight.

You are on the right track and I’m very grateful the world has changed to allow young, gay people like yourself the freedom to live true.

Remember this: the people who mind don’t matter and the people who matter don’t mind

]]> By: Fred http://www.btn101.net/2009/12/31/if-you-havent-noticed-im-gay-wahoo/#comment-245 Fred Thu, 04 Feb 2010 06:22:51 +0000 http://www.btn101.net/?p=147#comment-245 Wow I wish I could have had the guts to do what you just did when I was your age. I really hope things go well, and you find friends who you cna help and can help you. Wow I wish I could have had the guts to do what you just did when I was your age. I really hope things go well, and you find friends who you cna help and can help you.

]]> By: Peter http://www.btn101.net/2009/12/31/if-you-havent-noticed-im-gay-wahoo/#comment-244 Peter Wed, 03 Feb 2010 00:28:36 +0000 http://www.btn101.net/?p=147#comment-244 Hey dude.... I now how you feel, it's hard to feel like no one really understand you! I'm already 17 and just had the courage to tell some one when I was 15. After seeing your video and bravery I start feeling better about myself. You are an example to every gay and lesbian in this world, and if you need anyone to talk please add. pedroszesz@hotmail.com Hey dude…. I now how you feel, it’s hard to feel like no one really
understand you!

I’m already 17 and just had the courage to tell some one when I was 15.
After seeing your video and bravery I start feeling better about myself.
You are an example to every gay and lesbian in this world, and if you need anyone to talk please add. pedroszesz@hotmail.com

]]> By: 69er http://www.btn101.net/2009/12/31/if-you-havent-noticed-im-gay-wahoo/#comment-240 69er Fri, 29 Jan 2010 00:46:20 +0000 http://www.btn101.net/?p=147#comment-240 A very cool video my fine young friend... Thanks for lifting my day... if only the world was full of Boys like you... Much has already been said to affirm your courage and to confirm you are on the right path... The only thing I disagree with amongst the comments ... was the suggestion that you see a counselor... that is absolutely NOT what you need... Counselors are for people who have lost their direction... whereas you obviously know exactly where you are going... I was too gutless to come out when young... living in a very different era... I did all the expected things... married... raised a family... ran a business... paid a mortgage... really all I wanted was some Boylove... My heart goes out to you... sweet lil man... and VERY hot I might add...!!! I wish I was 30 years younger... A very cool video my fine young friend…

Thanks for lifting my day… if only the world was full of Boys like you…

Much has already been said to affirm your courage and to confirm you are on the right path…

The only thing I disagree with amongst the comments … was the suggestion that you see a counselor… that is absolutely NOT what you need… Counselors are for people who have lost their direction… whereas you obviously know exactly where you are going…

I was too gutless to come out when young… living in a very different era… I did all the expected things… married… raised a family… ran a business… paid a mortgage… really all I wanted was some Boylove…

My heart goes out to you… sweet lil man… and VERY hot I might add…!!! I wish I was 30 years younger…

]]> By: bob http://www.btn101.net/2009/12/31/if-you-havent-noticed-im-gay-wahoo/#comment-239 bob Mon, 25 Jan 2010 11:24:57 +0000 http://www.btn101.net/?p=147#comment-239 A friend just sent me this video and I just wanted to congratulate you on having the courage to not deny who you are. Like you I knew my orientation at a young age (younger than you), but could never had the courage to announce it publicly. Take care and if you ever need to talk about anything you can drop me a line Bob665@aol.com A friend just sent me this video and I just wanted to congratulate you on having the courage to not deny who you are. Like you I knew my orientation at a young age (younger than you), but could never had the courage to announce it publicly. Take care and if you ever need to talk about anything you can drop me a line Bob665@aol.com

]]> By: dustin http://www.btn101.net/2009/12/31/if-you-havent-noticed-im-gay-wahoo/#comment-235 dustin Wed, 20 Jan 2010 22:52:12 +0000 http://www.btn101.net/?p=147#comment-235 You go, man i wish i had a friend like you when i was your age. You are so cute, you will find someone You go, man i wish i had a friend like you when i was your age. You are so cute, you will find someone

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